All trial and reward here stemmed from the intricacies of building interpersonal relationships. I believe the success of this village is rooted in the fellowship that exists between the children. It is a joyful experience to witness the ease with which the children and staff proceed in their day-to-day routine. While trying to find my own niche in this simultaneously complex and seemingly effortless family, I found the children to be remarkably welcoming. They are quick to love, bastions of innocence in a complicated world.
As time passed I began to learn more about the children, their like and dislikes, quirks, even some of their fears and hopes. As I grew more comfortable with this rapport I found my role was beginning expanding. As I grew to know them, I found that more responsibility came with my new place in this village. Beyond friendship I had to put on the hat of authority, a function I was heretofore unfamiliar with. Finding myself in the position of enforcing rules, mediating disputes, and presenting consequences for actions did not come easily. Not without it’s rewards, I found this new aspect to my relationship only served to strengthen the bond we had formed.
As my time at the village comes to an end, I find myself approaching my departure with no small amount of trepidation, and with a heavy heart. A few nights ago, I was speaking with Dave, one of the older children. During our conversation he spoke of how blessed he felt to be in this village. I could not have agreed with him more, and know that when I leave I will take with me strong bonds of friendship and fond memories of a truly blessed month at the Chosen Children Village.
-Richard Javier,
January 27, 2010
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